Tuesday, May 26, 2009

"Don't Judge Me" Volume I

A very good friend of mine has said to me a time or two...."Don't judge me" when she may be indulging in a vice or two (or three). Well, this is Volume 1 of Lesa's "Don't Judge Me"!!!

We had an appointment with our social worker this morning, Maria Renee at 8:30 AM - so I got up at 6:00 AM to prepare - I cleaned the house (as best as I could around the live insects and bugs), got the girls and I cleaned up and then prepared them both for who was coming and why. Basically my instructions were "act like you love each other and smile all the time". I received a call from another adoptive mother who lives in our little community and she had just been in my house the night before - she called to give me a little advice - she told me it would probably be a good idea to remove the bottle of white wine on top of my refrigerator before the social worker arrived - (Don't Judge Me). I actually thought it was EXCELLENT advice and of course, it didn't even cross my mind. O.K. now I was completely ready for our visit!!

At 9:15 AM (yes, 45 minutes AFTER our appointment was to begin) I received a call informing me that our social worker would not be able to meet with us today and would call us later to schedule an appointment for Thursday - Albeit, this is typical behavior....I lost it!! I already had my translator in my house - my girls and I were actually clean and having this appointment was our best bet to get to the consejo this month. So immediately I searched the house for those little pills my doctor gave me that I take when I go to get my annual Mammogram - to calm me down - a generic form of Xanex and popped one (yes, just one) in my mouth - "Don't Judge Me"!!

I called my translator immediately to explain my frustration and apparently he knew immediately how upset I was because he cut me off and said he would take care of it - 20 minutes later, they arrived!! I know.....I am bad to the bone!!! ;D

The visit went great - we answered some very basic questions and I think our social worker saw a clear view of how our family interacts.....even when we are clean AND nice AND Mom is taking prescription drugs (Don't Judge Me)!!

Love and Blessings - Lesa

3 comments:

  1. I'm smiling the entire time I'm reading this and 'not judging' you!!! I'm so glad the meeting did happen and it went well! Can you pass on the name of your doctor who gives you pills to calm down? :)
    Love ya - hope today is a good one!
    T

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  2. STONE HER! STONE HER! The crowd chants ;-) Hey at least they didnt find Lucie's pack of smokes! HA HA HA. Glad it all worked out for you my love.

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  3. Girl aint no judging here...a mom's gotta do what a mom's gotta do, shoot! Ain't no shame in your game;)LMAO Glad it went well.

    I LOVE YOU LESA!!!
    XOXO

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